How can you “Be the One”?
About the author: Brook Thurman, BSW, is a social worker at the Human Services Center.
Every one of us has the power to be the one that helps save the life of a person that may be in crisis or contemplating suicide. We can each be the one, but how?
Suicide hurts all of us and no matter your stage of life, income, sex, race or religion, suicide does not discriminate. According to the Department of Health, suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in South Dakota. In 2020 there were 185 suicide deaths and the leading cause among individuals 10 to 19 years of age. During 2011-2020, 79 percent of suicides were male, and 21 percent were female, and the suicide rate of Native Americans was 2.5 times higher than whites.
Suicide can touch anyone, anywhere and at any time. My grandfather died by suicide before I was even born. My mother was just 14. It affected her entire life. People didn’t talk about suicide at all in the 1970’s when he died. It was referred to as “the accident.”
We have seen improvements over the years in talking about the stigmas of mental health, but how can we do better? It may be uncomfortable at first, but all of us have the power to save a life. Knowing some signs to watch for and starting the conversation is the first step. You don’t have to know what to say to say something. Here are some pointers to start the conversation.
By learning these steps, individuals are more likely to feel less depressed, less suicidal, less overwhelmed, and more hopeful after speaking to someone who listens without judgment. During Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, let’s commit ourselves to starting the conversation to show we care.
If you or someone you know needs resources, it’s now easier than ever. This summer 988 became the national three-digit phone number for all mental health, substance use and suicide crises. It provides rapid access to support through connection with trained crisis counselors. When dialed from a 605-area code, 988 will be routed to the Helpline Center in South Dakota.
South Dakota Suicide Prevention: https://sdsuicideprevention.org/
The Helpline Center: https://www.helplinecenter.org/9-8-8/
Department of Health: https://doh.sd.gov/prevention/Suicide-Prevention.aspx
South Dakota Treatment Resource Hotline: 1.800.920.4343
If you are a Veteran experiencing a mental health crisis, call 1-800-273-8288 and press 1 or text 838255.
If you are a LGBTQ youth experiencing a mental health crisis, call 1-866-488-7386 or text ‘START’ to 678-678
If you are a youth experiencing a mental health crisis, text icare at 898211 for free and confidential support with trusted staff.